Q:Dr. Santos. I'm a young mother of three and I have to say I love your posts. I have never tried black cock but I am so keen to try before life passes me by. My husband is a prude but a good man. How can I convince him and what does it mean for my marriage?
Thanks for the question.
Your predicament is a common one - and one I see a lot in my female patients. You’ve been a good girl all your life and playing by the rules. But something seems missing. But what to do?
It would be easy to say cheat on your hubby because he’s a jerk and be done with it. But as you say he is a good man. Rather than cheat why not bring him into your confidence about your secret desires.
Given he is a prude do it slowly. If you both like to see porn, start there. See his reactions and especially let him see yours to communicate your fantasies about fucking big black cock. Go slow and see where it leads.
It’s not cheating if you honest and communicating your latent desires to your partner. In time perhaps he will open up to his secret desires (believe me, he has them but perhaps sees you as a prude).
So many marriages are based on fear and it will lead to regret. It would be more fun for your marriage if you both did something erotic and sexy together as a couple. The fact that you love your husband and value your marriage will strengthen you both as you explore the push past taboo boundaries. But take it one step at a time.